Please, I need some help getting a girlfriend!?

External Beauty is never the sole criteria that a person looks for in his or her Dream Woman or Dream Man. In the heart of heart every person wants certain other qualities too that compliment that external beauty harmoniously. This can be verified through an Experiment. If a Man visiting a marriage bureau is shown pictures of certain Girls and he selects one of them on the basis of looks. Now if that Man is shown four identical photographs of the girl he selected, each of the four photographs conveying different body language, say in Photograph 1, the girl is giving a beautiful smile, in Photograph 2 the same girl is looking very upset, in Photograph 3 the same girl is shown looking very angry and in the last Photograph the same girl is giving an expression that shows Arrogance. If the Man is asked to select his favourable expression, he would definitely select Photograph 1 where that girl is giving a beautiful smile. Thus, we saw that at first the man selected the looks and then in the next session he selects the best expression from among the four expressions of the girl he selected. This shows that a person’s search for external beauty is at the lowest level in the hierarchy of the qualities he or she is looking for in their would be life partner. External beauty is not within any person’s control. What lies in one’s control is being a good human being with qualities of care, affection, kindness, positivity and cheerfulness. Despite this, Marriage Bureaus are flooded with requests like, Fair looking and tall, Tall dark and Handsome, Model like looks etc…The Divorces that follow then come as a bitter truth that relying solely on External Beauty was not wise a decision. Things that are not within a person’s control should never be made part of the parameters while searching the would be life partner. Such misguided celebration of External beauty often puts many boys and girls into inferiority complexes and these could proove to be a serious damage to their psyche.